Sunday, November 1, 2015

Outwitting the Devil, part 2

"duty" is one of the most abused and misunderstood words in existence.  the first duty of every human being is to himself.  every person owes himself the duty of finding how to live a full and happy life. beyond this, if one has time and energy not needed in the fulfillment of his own desires, one may assume responsibility for helping others.
your theory is that too much help thrust upon the youth encourages him to drift and become indefinite in all things. you believe that necessity is a teacher of great sagacity, that defeat carries with it an equivalent virtue, that unearned gifts of every nature may become a curse instead of a blessing.
people who whine and beg god to assume responsibility for all their troubles and provide them with all the necessities and luxuries of life are too lazy to create what they want and translate it into existence through the power of their own minds
failure is a man-made circumstance. it js never real until it has been accepted as permanent. failure is a state of mind
the only thing of enduring value to any human being is a working knowledge of his own mind. the churches do not permit a person to inquire into the possibilities of his own mind, and the schools do not recognize that such a thing as a mind exists
sin is anything one does or thinks which causes one to be unhappy. human beings who are in sound physical and spiritual health should be at peace with themselves and always happy. any form of mental or physical misery indicates the presence of sin
it is a sin to accept from life anything one does not want because that indicates an unpardonable neglect to use the mind
faith is the absence of all forms of negative thought
faith is definiteness of purpose backed by belief in the attainment of the object of that purpose
the person who is not master of himself can never be master of others
accurate knowledge on the subject of sex is next to the top of the list. there is but one thing of greater importance to human beings. that is accurate thought...accurate thinking is aided by properly controlled and directed sex emotion because sex emotion is the same energy as that with which one thinks.
wise men keep their plans to themselves and refrain from expressing uninvited opinions. this prevents others from appropriating their ideas and makes it difficult for others to interfere with their plans
...the habit is a way of expressing egotism and vanity. the motive behind the habit is to attract the attention of others to impress them favorably. actually it has just the opposite effect. when the self invited speaker attracts attention, it usually is unfavorable
no single quality adds more to one's personality than the ability to speak with emotional feeling, force, and conviction but the speaker must not impose his speech upon others without being invited to do so
but what are people going to lean upon in the hour of emergency when they know not where nor to whom to appeal?
let them lean upon the only dependable power available to any human being...themselves! the power of their own thoughts. the only power they can control and may rely upon.
we tend to want to change other people when we can truly only change ourselves and how we react to others
if they knew the difference between temporary defeat and failure, they would not quit when they meet opposition from life. if they knew that every form of defeat, and all failures, bring with them the seed of unborn opportunity, they would keep on fighting and win. success usually is but one short step beyond the point where one quits fighting
failure often serves as a blessing in disguise because it breaks the grip of hypnotic rhythm and frees the mind for a fresh start
failure proves conclusively that something is wrong with one's aims or the plans by which the object of these aims is sought. failure is the dead end of the habit path one has been following, and when it is reached it forces one to leave that path and take up another, thereby creating a new rhythm...failure also forces people to learn many truths they would never discover without it.
hypnotic rhythm picks up the dominating motives, aims, purposes, and feelings of the contacting minds and weaves these into some degree of faith, fear, love, or hatred
successful human relationships, to endure as such must be formed of minds that naturally harmonize, quite aside from the question of having common interests as a means of bringing them into harmony.
adversity forces an individual to test his mental, physical,  and spiritual strength.  it thus brings him face to face with hjs weaknesses and gives him the opportunity to bridge them.
adversity forces one to seek ways and means to definite ends by meditation and introspective thought. this often leads to the discovery and use of tbe sixth sense through which one may communicate with infinite intelligence.
adversity forces one to recognize the need for intelligence not available except from sources outside of one's own mind
adversity breaks old habits of thought and gives one an opportunity to form new habits
failure is a blessing when it forces one to depend less upon material forces and more upon spiritual forces
life gives to everyone the power of positive thought, which is sufficient to master all circumstances of adversity and convert them into benefits 

the most important part of one's environment is that created by his association with others. all people absorb and take over, either consciously or unconsciously, the thought habits of those with whom they associate closely.

be careful of all forces which inspire thought; those are the forces which constitute environment and determine the nature of one's earthly destiny

Q: What class of people controls their environmental influences?
A: the non-drifters. all who are victims of the habit of drifting forfeit their power to choose their own environment. they become the victims of every negative influence in their environment.

Drifting is nothing but a negative state of mind, a state of mind conspicuous by it's emptiness of purpose

Every human being is duty bound to himself to remove from his environment every influence which even remotely tends to develop negative thought-habits

nature will not tolerate idleness or vacuums of any sort. all space must be and is filled with something. when the individual does not use the brain for the expression of positive, creative thoughts, nature fills the vacuum by forcing the brain to act upon negative thoughts.

Q: do you mean that if i drift along through life, without definite aim or purpose, the non-drifter may become my master, and time only serves to give the non-drifter a stronger and more permanent grip upon me?
A: that is stating the truth exactly

Q: what is wisdom?
A: wisdom is the ability to relate yourself to nature's laws so as to make them serve you, and the ability to relate yourself to other people so as to gain their harmonious, willing cooperation in helping you to make life yield whatever you demand of it.


"Victory goes to the people who know what they want and are determined to have it. They have mastered the habit of drifting. they have definite policies, definite plans, and definite objectives. Their opposition, which may outnumber them very greatly, has no chance against them because the opposition has no plan, no purpose, no policy except that of drifting along, hoping that something may turn up to help them."

stating in one brief sentence the most important part of this book:
One's dominating desires can be crystallized into their physical equivalents through definiteness of purpose backed by definiteness of plans, with the aid of nature's law of hypnotic rhythm and time!


Friday, October 16, 2015

The success principles

asking yourself:
how am i creating or allowing this to happen?
1. what am i doing that's working that i need to be doing more of?
2. what am i doing that's not working?
- what do i need to be doing less of?
3. what am i doing that i need to try on to see if it works?

but the formula is simple- do more of what  is working, do less of what isn't, and try on new behaviors to see if they produce better results 

i believe each of us is born with a life purpose. identifying, acknowledging, and honoring this purpose is perhaps the most important action successful people take. they take the time to understand what they're here to do - and they pursue that with passion and enthusiasm

your inner guidance is your joy

the things that bring you the greatest joy are in alignment with your purposes. to begin to home in on your purpose, make a list of the times you felt most joyful and alive. what are the common elements of these experiences? can you figure out a way to make a living doing these things?

(hw..question above to recent several months)
- experiment with hamburg recipe at tdl
- creating rice ball recipe at home
- talking bread with dough
- creating and teaching box and paper ball lesson at nh
- eating like a buffet with jiyoon at pangyo mall
- thinking of ideas for merlion menu while taking a shower
- flirting with yungyo in the tdl kitchen with french fries
- working in flow at the pasta station at the old tdl
- working in flow at the hamburger station at tdl
- teaching 지영 my tricks and tips after work
- helping subin think of essay ideas for xmas santa speech contest
- thinking of ideas for 족발 banh mi with donghyeok
- seeing minseok and daehyeon at bangkok express

figure out what you love to do as young as you can, and then organize your life around figuring out how to make a living at it

1. list 2 unique personal qualities
- establish report through trust easily
- creativity and drive to make it perfect

2. list 1 or 2 ways you enjoy expressing those qualities when interacting with others
- giving unorthodox or inspiring solutions
- making them smile and laugh

3. assume the world is perfect right now. what does it look like? how is everyone interacting? what does it feel like?

so clean. people all smiling and having the utmost common courtesy for others. like the southern hospitality mixed with singapore modern tropical feel and japan perfection...but also a carefree surfer bali coolness with the happiness and tranquility and calm of mihwangsa temple stay. people acting driven and self motivated to do their best. so focused on self improvement and so successful at living out their passion than all things are art including farming, teaching, cooking, construction, even administration and politcal work. all with self driven ambition...and so alive that they glow with excitement and love. the love rubs off on everyone through their smiles. individual selves not concerned with needing from others but in true control and awareness of their minds to create anything they desire. feels amazing to know that the world is generous, safe, filled with helpful, happy people, and that i am free to live life the way i please without any outside criticism or pressures from society or family and friends. it feels like utopia. free but no boredom...instead, it is full passion and care and gratitude

my purpose is to use my curiosity and creativity to create smiles and drive that will inspires others to live with passion and compassion

what does success look like to you? what do you want to accomplish? what do you want to experience? and what possessions do you want to acquire?

my experience is that one of the few differences between the superachievers and the rest if the world is that the superachievers simply dream bigger

create your future from your future,  not your past.

scientists used to believe that humans responded to information flowing into the brain from the outside world. but today,  they're learning instead that we respond to what the brain, on the basis of previous experience, expects to happen next.

whatever your dream is, look at yourself in the mirror and declare that you are indeed going to achieve it - no matter what price